If you go back 20-30 years ago a mother (woman) and a father(man) was the norm for most households. Traditionally the dad has always supposed to be the leader of the house. The father is supposed to train his children the way he wants them to end up as adults.(Train a child up in a do what you want home be prepared to post bail. )Fathers would you want your daughter to date a guy like you ?
However you treat your wife your daughter will think that’s how she is supposed to be treated. Some of you fathers cheat on your wife and you THINK no one knows but someone knows;Just remember however you treat your wife your daughter will think that’s how a woman should be treated and she will end up dating a man like YOU.
I will let you take a while to think about that.
Their is this saying which goes like this”Daughters always marry a guy similar to their father.” That quote has some truth to it and their is a principle behind it. Daughters who grow up with a father who loves and cherishes them tend to wait until their married to have sexual relations. This is not entirely true because their are many women who did not grow up with a father but waited until marriage to have sex.
A father is supposed to tell his daughter that he loves her .( He is supposed to tell all his children this but I am focusing on daughters now.) When the daughter knows that she is loved she doesn’t have to go around chasing bad boys because more than likely that won’t excite her.
Now I want to discuss what we talked about earlier,
“Daughters always marry a guy similar to their father.”
If a girl grows up watching her father treat her mother with respect then more than likely she will know what she deserves respect . A girl who grows up watching her father cheat,lie,and live a lifestyle that is offensive to God she probably isn’t going to end up marrying a man who treats her like his queen.
As we can see it’s very important for every child to grow up in a TRADITIONAL household where mom and dad are married.
the cycle of out-of-wedlock children began around 1970. America had just came from one of the worse decades in history (60s) so this played a big role in this.
Studies show children who grow up in a house with traditional parents tend to do better in life. I’m not saying children who didn’t grow up with traditional parents won’t do good I’m just saying it’s better to have a child with a man ( father) and a woman ( mother) .
In the past 40 something years the divorce rate has increased drastically and it has had a huge effect on society. Hollywood is having an effect on to many of our children and the results of that are teenage pregnancy,aids, premarital sex, abortions,drug usage, etc. Parents who don’t have a traditional home need to surround their children around God-fearing,Bible reading people instead of a Vodka drinking,pot smoking crowd.
We as society need to go back to the days where children grew up in traditional homes ;even if your child doesn’t have two parents surround them around a God-fearing group. Far too many people want to fit in and they think it’s cool but 10 years from now they will be a have not(barely making it financially) and the so-called “nerds” will have it all.
I pray in Jesus name that children everywhere will return to Christian standards and start obeying ALL adults.
Parents you need to start watching what your children are watching I can’t stress it enough. One of the first post I did was named ,”What is being watched in your home?”
During that post I listed the reasons you should guard what is being watched in your home. If you enjoy porn ,shows with a lot of cursing read the link that I have posted above.
Now I know that their are some people who will deny this even though statistics show it. For some reasons it’s easier for some people to make babies instead of creating families. According to the Bible we are supposed to wait until marriage to have sex.
1 Thessalonians 4:3-8
*Don’t forget that their are many more Bible verses that tell us that purity is a great thing.
I’m not going to pretend that all people actually wait until marriage to have sex but you should. Alot of people wear purity rings to represent their purity ;But if you know that you are a virgin why would you have to wear a purity ring to show it ? By the way their are many other Bible verses that talk about purity I just chose this one.
Now I know some people are going to try to find loopholes in the scripture but the Bible is very clear on waiting until marriage to have sex. If you have had sex before marriage ask God for forgiveness. Alot of people don’t like to read the Bible because they know God will hold them accountable for their sins because they know what their doing is wrong.
The Bible even tells us that our sexual immorality brings results (HIV,AIDS, and other STDs) . (1 Corinthians 6:18)
Alot of people want to fit in and have earthly pleasures but we aren’t here to have earthly pleasures were here to praise God . I’m not saying sex is a bad thing ,its bad before marriage but its not bad when you’re married. Alot of people say that people who say premarital sex is wrong are judging.
I’m not judging but God is. Let me clarify that , God loves all of us but when he tells us to do something he expects us to do it without questioning it. God gives us many chances through the blood of Christ but if God asks us not to do something let’s respect him enough to do it.
God has been good to all of us and we should have the decency to obey his commands and rules. God is the same God that he was in The Bible (more merciful) and he still operates the same way. Some people seem to think God “goes with the flow ” that is completely wrong.
The same God that destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah can destroy America but mercy is what’s saving us. Just because homosexuality is accepted in the earthly courts doesn’t mean that he accepts it. If God accepted homosexuality he wouldn’t have destroyed two cities for it.
We have so called preachers that preach that God loves all;God does love everyone he just doesn’t like our sin. God isn’t playing with anyone but let some preachers tell it he is the leader of the LGBT club . God word is the same as it was 2,000 years ago and it will remain the same.
We as Christians should be careful what translation of the Bible we use because some translations go against what the Bible says. Now I know I was supposed to be discussing the degradation of today’s culture and family but everything I am talking about is related. Some translations of the Bible go against the original Bible .
Alot of current day translations mock Jesus and his word the translations water down the true Bible. The Bible even says that his (Jesus) word needs no addition or subtraction( His word needs nothing new added or anything taken out. ) .
People have been applying biblical principles to their life since the beginning of time and they have succeeded. Just remember to always obey God and do what he says.
Their is one thing I want to discuss before I end this post. The 10 commandments are not a summarization of The Bible the entire Bible is important not just one part. Psalms is just as important as Genesis. Please share this post with many people as possible and don’t forget to read all of my other blog posts.
A lot of people nowadays settle for the less in relationships due to fear of being alone.
Let me tell you something it’s better to be alone and happy than to settle for someone who makes you mad everyday. I’m not saying that it’s impossible to be happy everyday but don’t settle for someone who you don’t love.
During the dating process it’s pretty much known as the I would die for you phase and everything is going good but as soon as something occurs that’s when people break up and call it quits.
It’s good to date for at least 9 -14 months so you can get to know your boyfriend or girlfriend and to know their habits. Some people jump in relationships immediately and they don’t know their boyfriend or girlfriends habits and once they see their is something they don’t like about their spouse they go running for the hills!!
People grow overtime and things change. The pressures of life(unemployment,death in the family,financial issues,etc.) can make a surprisingly change in someone’s life but with the God of Abraham,Isaac, and Jacob he can and will open doors no man can change.
Alot of people stay in relationships knowing they aren’t happy and that is the worst thing you can do ever . Before leaving ask yourself if their is anything worth staying for. Their is no need to stay in a relationship and be miserable , I can’t stress that enough.
Each day God gives us is a gift and whether we enjoy that day or not is our choice. The Bible gives many examples of how a relationship should be set up. When married the man should be the primary provider, God understands periods of unemployment but just to sit at home and be abled bodied and not work is unacceptable in God’s eyes. To brag about how much money you make is both rude and arrogant.
If it wasn’t for God you wouldn’t even have been employed. God gave everyone gifts and if you are making good money thank God. He is a great God and forgiving and we should thank him for being good everyday. If you have lights, food, clothes, and a house then you are blessed. In this materialistic society we can forget to be grateful for even the necessities.
You definitely don’t want to bring a child in this world and not know everything their is to know about your spouse . Bringing a life into this world is serious. You can’t just go around having babies without a plan.
People have different parenting styles and that’s ok but if that parenting style is affecting the child then you need to find another one. People who are in relationships should love each other. If you aren’t loving each other then you probably need to look in a different direction.
*Their was a technical error that made 4 copies of this post. This is the updated version.
I wasn’t planning on talking about this but somehow this message wrote itself.
We all have plans in life. Some people plan to have 4 children by the age of 34 and then their going to go back to school to get their PH.d
. What people don’t realize is that God makes all the plans. Sure we want the biggest house in the neighborhood but God probably wants us to live in a small house .
God is an intelligent God. He knows things that we will never thought out.
Some people try to do things knowing God doesn’t want them to do it. If God hasn’t blessed it , it definitely won’t work out. People try to marry people because of their physical appearance but God hasn’t blessed that situation so it won’t work out.
God knows what’s best for everyone. We are all created by him although some of his children have gone astray and went to worship idols.
When we follow God’s rule we will be blessed. In the last post I talked about how America is quickly turning into a Sodom and Gommorah. We want God to bless us but we are doing the opposite of what God word says do.
The Bible speaks against abortion and gay marriage. Yet people still try to turn the scriptures to fit their lifestyle. We (America) want God to bless us but we do the opposite of what he says.
God controls the entire universe so he is the only one who should be feared. He speaks to us through mother nature. I strongly believe Hurricane Katrina was no accident. New Orleans celebrates homosexuality as if it’s a great lifestyle.
The hurricane came before their rally and this isn’t the first rally they’ve had. New Orleans is known for their strange religious cults. They worship ( Not everyone in New Orleans is in a cult) almost every god except the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob.
New Orleans isn’t the only place that’s like that. Atlanta is known for their high gay population. Where’s their sins their is punishment.
This disease not only affects black women it affects the entire city.
While politicians try their best to fight for gay marriage they don’t tell the uneducated public about all of the risks that come with homosexual intercourse.
Homosexuals have to take extra precaution when they have intercourse because it’s dangerous and they are more likely to get a STD.
Of course you aren’t going to learn this on television because all your seeing is people thanking God that prop 8 was ruled unconstitutional.
God created woman and man not man and man. When he created us he gave us a choice to choose between Good and Evil.
God could have easily made us all devoted Christians but he wanted us to choose.
Knowledge is power and the more knowledge you have the less you are liable to fall for a trap.
America is in a battle right now and its a battle between unseen forces. Those two cities I mentioned aren’t the only cities that are being affected by STDs. People are so cool with everything nowadays because they don’t read their bible.
What I’m saying isn’t bigotry. I’ve been accused of bigotry before. Facts don’t lie.
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Thanks for reading.
Everyone should have a relationship with God but unfortunately every doesn’t . Their are millions of people that are dying everyday and unfortunately they haven’t heard if the gospel.
God said in the bible without accepting Jesus as your personal Lord and savior you can’t enter through the gates of heaven.
Their are some pastors saying that their is more than one way to get to heaven and that is a flat out lie . I want to mention to that everyone should be careful about what they research about preachers and God because some people will have you believing every preacher is out to get your money and that’s false .
People make Christianity so hard when in reality it’s not . Sure you have to have faith and a lot if patience but you have to have those two things in everyday life .
Alot of people say they do t have patience and their probably absolutely right . Their friends probably are sick of them to and just don’t tell them .
God is a loving God but society nowadays try to brainwash people into thinking he is an angry and judge mental God when in reality he isn’t .
Satan wants people to be confused and ignorant when it comes to Christianity when in reality their are far too many resources out their to be ignorant about Christianity . They even give away free NIV and KJV bibles . Their are no excuses .
A lot of times people don’t want to accept God because they don’t want to get rid of their sins .
Just because you are a Christian doesn’t mean that you won’t be able to have fun anymore . I am a Christian and I have fun and I know a lot of Christians that have fun .
God is good and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise , If you are a Christian you should be in a good bible believing church and if you are not a Christian go to a good bible believing church .
Every church is not a bible believing church that’s why you have people who think they are hearing the word of God but in reality they are being deceived .
Everyone should have a bible and if you have a bible don’t read it with a critical mind because Satan will try his best to make you not believe the Bible and to be skeptical of it . If you go purchase a bible when you read it don’t have a skeptical mind because Satan will try to deceive you .
Satan is the father of lies and so are his followers .
Remember God is good and God bless you for reading this post and remember if you don’t have a bible go purchase one . In the long run you will be glad you did .
If you have any questions, comments , or anything to say feel free to comment.
Prayer . Prayer in the Christian faith is so important . When you pray you are having a conversation with the almighty God . God hears our thoughts,wishes , and our desires of our heart . When you pray God listens and he will either make it happen it not . A lot of people think that God doesn’t answer prayers but sometimes God has something better for us so he doesn’t answer that one but later on in life hd gives you something even better ! A lot of times people pray small prayers because their afraid of asking God for too much . God is a liberal giver which means he gives slog ,God definitely isn’t stingy with his blessings and he blesses us even when we don’t deserve it at tines . Prayer is powerful and Satan hates when you pray because you could be one prayer from a breakthrough or a healing . You can pray for anything , some people pray for healing for themselves or for a family member , you can pray for anything because or loving God always is listening to us because he loves all of us even the no believers . Prayer is Satan’s worse nightmare because prayer can turn a nervous ,low self esteem person into a bold and high self esteem . People pray in many different ways , some pray in to tongues and done pray in English . That topic is for another post .
*Action along with prayer is important as well .
The Difference between a Relationship and a Game . A lot of people day they want a relationship but they don’t know the characteristics of a real relationship. When you are in a relationship you don’t have live in the same house that is called shacking and the bible clearly speaks against shacking . A lot of people like about Kim Kardashian and her show . One of her sisters ,I forgot the name , but she has two children and is living with her boyfriend named Scott and they have two children together . That Is ridiculous to have two children and not even be married . Scott said his girlfriend isn’t interested in marriage . The problem is women don’t know their self value that’s why they stick around in worthless relationships and waste precious God given time . If you have a two kids you and you’re not even married you’re just playing house and that’s not funny or cute because all you’re doing is confusing everybody in the house . If you’re a woman and your in this situation get out of it God created you for so much more .. Please read your bible and if you don’t have a bible go to the library or go to a store and buy you’re own copy . Read the bible and specifically read bible scriptures about marriage so you can see what God’s ideal on marriage is . If you’re not a Christian start reading the bible from the Old Testament to the New Testament . Even if you’re a Christian start reading the bible from the Old Testament to the New Testament . A lot of people think the bible is contradictory because they start reading the bible from the New Testament and they end at the Old Testament . You must start at the Old Testament and end at the New Testament . People who don’t read the Old Testament to the New Testament thinks the Bible is contradictory and that’s not true . The Bible is not contradictory in fact The Bible is one of the most wisest books you will ever read . If you are an atheist or if you are in another religion you will be surprised at how much knowledge is in the Bible. May God bless you for taking the time to read my blog . Don’t forget About reading the bible .