If you go back 20-30 years ago a mother (woman) and a father(man) was the norm for most households. Traditionally the dad has always supposed to be the leader of the house. The father is supposed to train his children the way he wants them to end up as adults.(Train a child up in a do what you want home be prepared to post bail. )Fathers would you want your daughter to date a guy like you ?
However you treat your wife your daughter will think that’s how she is supposed to be treated. Some of you fathers cheat on your wife and you THINK no one knows but someone knows;Just remember however you treat your wife your daughter will think that’s how a woman should be treated and she will end up dating a man like YOU.
I will let you take a while to think about that.
Their is this saying which goes like this”Daughters always marry a guy similar to their father.” That quote has some truth to it and their is a principle behind it. Daughters who grow up with a father who loves and cherishes them tend to wait until their married to have sexual relations. This is not entirely true because their are many women who did not grow up with a father but waited until marriage to have sex.
A father is supposed to tell his daughter that he loves her .( He is supposed to tell all his children this but I am focusing on daughters now.) When the daughter knows that she is loved she doesn’t have to go around chasing bad boys because more than likely that won’t excite her.
Now I want to discuss what we talked about earlier,
“Daughters always marry a guy similar to their father.”
If a girl grows up watching her father treat her mother with respect then more than likely she will know what she deserves respect . A girl who grows up watching her father cheat,lie,and live a lifestyle that is offensive to God she probably isn’t going to end up marrying a man who treats her like his queen.
As we can see it’s very important for every child to grow up in a TRADITIONAL household where mom and dad are married.
the cycle of out-of-wedlock children began around 1970. America had just came from one of the worse decades in history (60s) so this played a big role in this.
Studies show children who grow up in a house with traditional parents tend to do better in life. I’m not saying children who didn’t grow up with traditional parents won’t do good I’m just saying it’s better to have a child with a man ( father) and a woman ( mother) .
In the past 40 something years the divorce rate has increased drastically and it has had a huge effect on society. Hollywood is having an effect on to many of our children and the results of that are teenage pregnancy,aids, premarital sex, abortions,drug usage, etc. Parents who don’t have a traditional home need to surround their children around God-fearing,Bible reading people instead of a Vodka drinking,pot smoking crowd.
We as society need to go back to the days where children grew up in traditional homes ;even if your child doesn’t have two parents surround them around a God-fearing group. Far too many people want to fit in and they think it’s cool but 10 years from now they will be a have not(barely making it financially) and the so-called “nerds” will have it all.
I pray in Jesus name that children everywhere will return to Christian standards and start obeying ALL adults.
Parents you need to start watching what your children are watching I can’t stress it enough. One of the first post I did was named ,”What is being watched in your home?”
During that post I listed the reasons you should guard what is being watched in your home. If you enjoy porn ,shows with a lot of cursing read the link that I have posted above.
Now I know that their are some people who will deny this even though statistics show it. For some reasons it’s easier for some people to make babies instead of creating families. According to the Bible we are supposed to wait until marriage to have sex.
1 Thessalonians 4:3-8
*Don’t forget that their are many more Bible verses that tell us that purity is a great thing.
I’m not going to pretend that all people actually wait until marriage to have sex but you should. Alot of people wear purity rings to represent their purity ;But if you know that you are a virgin why would you have to wear a purity ring to show it ? By the way their are many other Bible verses that talk about purity I just chose this one.
Now I know some people are going to try to find loopholes in the scripture but the Bible is very clear on waiting until marriage to have sex. If you have had sex before marriage ask God for forgiveness. Alot of people don’t like to read the Bible because they know God will hold them accountable for their sins because they know what their doing is wrong.
The Bible even tells us that our sexual immorality brings results (HIV,AIDS, and other STDs) . (1 Corinthians 6:18)
Alot of people want to fit in and have earthly pleasures but we aren’t here to have earthly pleasures were here to praise God . I’m not saying sex is a bad thing ,its bad before marriage but its not bad when you’re married. Alot of people say that people who say premarital sex is wrong are judging.
I’m not judging but God is. Let me clarify that , God loves all of us but when he tells us to do something he expects us to do it without questioning it. God gives us many chances through the blood of Christ but if God asks us not to do something let’s respect him enough to do it.
God has been good to all of us and we should have the decency to obey his commands and rules. God is the same God that he was in The Bible (more merciful) and he still operates the same way. Some people seem to think God “goes with the flow ” that is completely wrong.
The same God that destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah can destroy America but mercy is what’s saving us. Just because homosexuality is accepted in the earthly courts doesn’t mean that he accepts it. If God accepted homosexuality he wouldn’t have destroyed two cities for it.
We have so called preachers that preach that God loves all;God does love everyone he just doesn’t like our sin. God isn’t playing with anyone but let some preachers tell it he is the leader of the LGBT club . God word is the same as it was 2,000 years ago and it will remain the same.
We as Christians should be careful what translation of the Bible we use because some translations go against what the Bible says. Now I know I was supposed to be discussing the degradation of today’s culture and family but everything I am talking about is related. Some translations of the Bible go against the original Bible .
Alot of current day translations mock Jesus and his word the translations water down the true Bible. The Bible even says that his (Jesus) word needs no addition or subtraction( His word needs nothing new added or anything taken out. ) .
People have been applying biblical principles to their life since the beginning of time and they have succeeded. Just remember to always obey God and do what he says.
Their is one thing I want to discuss before I end this post. The 10 commandments are not a summarization of The Bible the entire Bible is important not just one part. Psalms is just as important as Genesis. Please share this post with many people as possible and don’t forget to read all of my other blog posts.