Love and Relationships

A lot of people nowadays settle for the less in relationships due to fear of being alone.

Let me tell you something it’s better to be alone and happy than to settle for someone who makes you mad everyday. I’m not saying that it’s impossible to be happy everyday but don’t settle for someone who you don’t love.

During the dating process it’s pretty much known as the I would die for you phase and everything is going good but as soon as something occurs that’s when people break up and  call it quits.

It’s good to date for at least 9 -14 months so you can get to know your boyfriend or girlfriend and to know their habits. Some people jump in relationships immediately and they don’t know their boyfriend or girlfriends habits and once they see their is something they don’t like about their spouse they go running for the hills!!

People grow overtime and things change. The pressures of life(unemployment,death in the family,financial issues,etc.) can make a surprisingly change in someone’s life but with the God of Abraham,Isaac, and Jacob he can and will open doors no man can change.

Alot of people stay in relationships knowing they aren’t happy and that is the worst thing you can do ever . Before leaving ask yourself if their is anything worth staying for. Their is no need to stay in a relationship and be miserable , I can’t stress that enough.

Each day God gives us is a gift and whether we enjoy that day or not is our choice. The Bible gives many examples of how a relationship should be set up. When married the man should be the primary provider, God understands periods of unemployment but just to sit at home and be abled bodied and not work is unacceptable in God’s eyes. To brag about how much money you make is both rude and arrogant.

If it wasn’t for God you wouldn’t even have been employed. God gave everyone gifts and if you are making good money thank God. He is a great God and forgiving and we should thank him for being good everyday. If you have lights, food, clothes, and a house then you are blessed. In this materialistic society we can forget to be grateful for even the necessities.

You definitely don’t want to bring a child in this world and not know everything their is to know about your spouse . Bringing a life into this world is serious. You can’t just go around having babies without a plan.

People have different parenting styles and that’s ok but if that parenting style is affecting the child then you need to find another one. People who are in relationships should love each other. If you aren’t loving each other then you probably need to look in a different direction.

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